Opportunity...Yours or ?

  Somewhere down the line someone at sometime took you for an "Ass", point blank. Most behind your back, and a few right in the face. They have tried to ruin your opportunity to rise above the ashes of a defeat. How? Reminders of how bad you did on that last project you led; something you did to get the job done, but they saw how you did it (even though it was OK to do), whether they knew or not. The list...on & on.


                         CAN WE DO DUMB SOMETIMES?

The Movie-Dumb & Dumber

  Sure we can do dumb things once in a while, but that doesn't mean we should be profiled as such. So, where do you go from there? Do you let their time of glory destroy what little dignity you feel is left? Your answer is a definite NO! This is where you pick up your pieces from your personal ash heap, and put them in the waste basket where they belong!

  It's hard to get away from being labeled at times, especially if you've let it go on for such a long period of time. Its time to move forward. Leave their thoughts behind, forgive and forget (tough one there). Time to start fresh and new. This is your opportunity to start with a fresh new outlook. YOURS, and what you can be.

  I wasn't there to see what you or whoever did what was done; that would make it easy to cure, but gossip is the term used for such behavior. It is wrong and it is devastating to others and yourself. Acquaint yourself with this phrase, "What goes around comes around." or " Do to others as you want done to you." In other words treat people the way you want to be treated, no matter what they do, be the better person.

 You owe it to yourself to make a clear stand and do what's needed to be done. Doing the right things, saying the right things is what is needed to bring you to the top of the hill. This is open ended and intentional for your thoughts to be pondered upon and collective for the soul purpose of self confidence and self esteem.