Legacy Extension pt3

   "Legacy Leadership is a process of intentional influence that takes place in the context of a relationship."
     Dr. J. Lee Whittington

1. Leadership is a team effort
2. There is an intentional influence to bring change, growth. They count themselves (considered) among their followers, not above them.
3. Leaving a (your) legacy is a deliberate act, and has a ripple effect.

                                     Measuring leadership effectiveness reality check:
  It's not quarterly metrics as you may have assumed. It's the impact you have on each member and individual who follows. Building their capacity to grow. This comes only thru knowing each individual follower on a more intimate level. With this in the forefront, your quarterly metrics take care of themselves, and in a more momentous way.

   There is no double meaning in the words you say, things you want accomplished with NO hidden agendas on you as the leader. In other words, there is no selfish agenda on the leaders' part.

  Leaders exemplify authenticity, true humility towards their followers. This is what a follower follows...even to the end. It's the leaders' caring and sharing of self. So...BE REAL.

 If we have done our perfect job as leaders what then? Do not our followers show our credentials and/of recommendation to those who are not? Of course! They will be true to you and the cause.

  There are two ways leaders are seen as. We can lead as managers, or lead as honest-to-goodness leaders. It's easy to fall into the manager trap. SORRY! the fact is, managing people, paper, work, bills, etc isn't leading. Leadership is a growing, ever expanding venture between follower and leader.

           [ NOTICE: I put follower before leader, because leaders put their followers first.] 

The Leaderships Imperative: To make law that goes across the board without conflict of interest on all parts. The meaning is that the thing you put into law is able to transfer from one place of use to another without repercussions.

True leaders always lead from the front line, not from the back, the middle, or on some side-line.

 As we wrap up this mini-series I want you all to think about it. Your followers, co-workers, associates are your bread and butter as much as you are. We are all part of the team, and part of the overall big picture.

 This is the last blog of the year, you have been very much appreciated throughout this year, and we look forward to many more.

ARNOLD GROUP

Building dreams, teams, and friends for life, not just clients!

Leadership...Legacy Extension pt2

Legacy Leadership is the extension of ones self. Leadership is having followers work for you and even with you. LL is having them not only with you but thru you.

 They emulate you. Not that's not to say there is an ego crisis going on here, but the pure, simple truth is that you are looked at with a high regard of respect. They gladly take on the extension of your leadership. They do what you would/will do, whether you're there or not. If you're at a meeting down the hall, or visiting a client on the other side of town, they replicate in your absence.

                                         WHY? WHY? WHY? and WHY?

  Simply put, your relationship with those you lead are so close so tight, they wouldn't want it any other way. Take the Navy Seals Teams for instance. They work together for so long so close, training, resting, training, learning, training. They get to know each others next move, almost spontaneously. Like having one body, one mind.

         "A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way."

                                                                                                      John C. Maxwell

  Same with the organization you all work for. You want to flow as one organism. The Apostle Paul said it this way, "You know what kind of men we proved ourselves to be among you for YOUR good. And you set yourselves to become imitators of us and through us of the Lord Himself..." Thess: 1:5-6

 NOTICE: Here Paul states that these followers were imitators of himself as he was/is an imitator of the Lord. That they made the mind set to do just that. It was a deliberate act!

  Legacy leaders admonish when need be, but not to the point of your follower feeling persecution. Your leadership should always put your followers needs and growth first in front of your own. This display of humility is so strong  on your behalf, that none of these wonderful followers you have to lead will ever, never dispute your judgement.

  Great leaders should not be "passive-positives" as what political scientist James David Barber calls it. This is when the manager/supervisor enjoys such title, accolades, and privileges, but has no intention of filling the duties in full. They avoid confrontation, have a hard time confronting difficult issues, and find conversation hard to deal with. They aren't emotionally engaged in the work process, some find it hard at home as well.

  I knew a supervisor who dodged the upper management team for two whole months. When they finally caught up to him he was laid-off. They figured if they didn't get what they needed from him, and he was getting paid, "Dump him!" was their final word.

  As a legacy leader you want to be active, not passive. You want your behavior to be transactional and transformational. By transactional you are identifying performance expectations with utmost clarity, and rewarding when those performances are met. Transformational is meaning that you are fully engaged in passing your knowledge to the other person. Followers emulate their leader!

  Also, you as this extraordinary leader that you are, realize that no two people are alike, and you don't treat them as such. Treat your followers as individuals, reach them on each of their levels. No, they don't all move at the same pace, so your patience is sometimes highly required.

Food for thought: Some leaders at this point would throw in the towel, and get rid of those types of followers. But patience is the virtue that overrides this perspective to create a great follower in the end.

Check out the first of this series: Admonish, Nurture, A Legacy Leadership
Also:  Want to be a great leader?

 Here at Arnold Group, we are "Building dreams, teams, and friends for life, not just clients!"

Ultimately, leadership is not about glorious crowning acts. It's about keeping your team focused on a goal and motivated to do their best to achieve it, especially when the stakes are high and the consequences really matter. It is about laying the groundwork for others' success, and then standing back and letting them shine. Chris Hadfield
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Ultimately, leadership is not about glorious crowning acts. It's about keeping your team focused on a goal and motivated to do their best to achieve it, especially when the stakes are high and the consequences really matter. It is about laying the groundwork for others' success, and then standing back and letting them shine. Chris Hadfield
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Admonish, Nurture, A Legacy Leadership

We've all talked about Leadership, Servant-Leadership (which is a start), but what about a transparent leader? How about...
                                    
                                                        Being a Legacy Leader!

What is a legacy leader, what does it look like, what does it do?

Well, let's start with what they are not, and don't do.

They never lead from behind.
They never ask for anything that CAN'T be done.
They never ask from you what they haven't done themselves. (Within limits, of course)
They never make rules no one can follow, or not follow themselves.
They never gossip about their followers.
They never condemn nor condone bad actions.
They never play the blame game on others.

What legacy leaders do:

They always lead from the front. They are the point men and women.
They always ask from you what you are capable of.
They always push you into a growth zone.
They always build their followers, working on their strengths.
They always admonish and nurture when things go awry.
They take the heat for their followers when it gets down to it.
They give positive affirmation and praise for a job well done.

Think on these questions

 They go with you side by side on any frontier or tread any new waters. Legacy Leaders go above and beyond their call of duty.


                  You are asking your followers to, "Do as I say, and do as I do!"


  You ask why would they do such a thing, why don't they just do their time, make sure everyone did what they should have and call it a day? That's why they are called...
                                                      
                                              "LEGACY LEADERS!"

  What kind of legacy will you leave to the next generation of managers after you retire or are gone. Would your dream be to be remembered as the "jerk that didn't care" That wouldn't last too long. But the guy or gal that went the extra mile, spent that extra minute or hour helping a follower get it right, put her/him on the right path to become perhaps a stellar performer, that's one of the things a legacy leader does.

                                                          AHH, but there's more!

  A Legacy Leader does one giant step greater. That's to live that legacy in the present, not after they've moved on. Followers watch what's done more than hear what's said. That old saying, "I can't hear what you're saying, because your actions are speaking louder!" Don't let that be said of you.

  You can touch them, speak to them any time, almost hear their heart beat. Why? They get up close and personal with their followers. They're not afraid to be vulnerable with those they lead. Napoleon was a leader such as that. He knew the names of his soldiers and knew of their families, Gen. Patten, the same.
You are training the next generation to be great leaders as yourself, to take up the gauntlet in your stead.

   Jesus when he walked the earth did just that. He was and is the ultimate Legacy Leader of all time. He taught his disciples to be just as himself, and after two millennia, his followers still grow.

   Stepping into this kind of leadership is demanding non the doubt, but the rewards are stupendous. Here at Arnold Group, we are "Building dreams, teams, and friends for life, not just clients!"

Culture! Everyone's Talking Culture

   Everybody wants to either create a new culture for their organization or do it from scratch. Which of the two do you declare is your venue? Or maybe you haven't thought of needing one, or more-so never thought of having a culture at all.
 But, now that I put it in front of you, you're thinking, "To have a culture, or not to have?" AHH..the question!

   Cultures play different roles in different organizations. No two cultures are alike! Just as no two people are alike. What one type of culture can do for one may not do the same for another; not that its bad, it just doesn't fit your type of organization.

  "Creating a culture for your company is like picking a suit/dress, or shoes it has to feel, look,  and wear just right or it won't go far."

  Next question to ask yourself is, "What kind of culture do I want for my organization?" Sophisticated, light, cheerful, fun, debonair (to name a few)? Maybe a mix, such as fun yet sophisticated, light yet debonair.

                                                                  Don't go for dark or

                                                    gloomy, you'll chase people away.


   Seriously though, you need to think of the atmosphere you want to portray in your company. Think of it as a stimulus. You want it to perpetrate all the persons involved; to be a part of something bigger than themselves to invade their personage (in a good way).

  The type of business you run plays a major part in the culture type you need to have in order to be successful for years to come. It's not a one size fits all, it has to be true to you and the mission you're on, the end being in mind from the beginning.

  What do clients see when they walk into your respective business, especially new clientele? First time impressions mean everything, whether it's a date, first day at a new career move, a meeting, etc. What does your opening act personify to the client?

  How can culture affect employees, 1. they are eager to start their day, or 2. just another day at the office, blah, blah, blah?

                     Culture is always there, (good or bad) whether we observe it or not.

Your Culture is the very essence of your company, it's the heart and core values wrapped up in everything you and your company stand for.

  A good introduction is the book Corporate Cultures by Terrence Deal and Allan Kennedy.  A more in-depth examination is the book The Cultures of Work Organizations by Harrison Trice and Janice Beyer. These will help you start your "Cultural journey". 

Happy culturing! Cheers, Jack

A Recipe For Your Success

 Here are some simple and practical things to follow when "baking" up your business. You can add as you see fit to baking up your personal brand, but these should be a stand-out and starting point.

Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.
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   This recipe is for a great Customer/Client relationship. Creating Satisfaction is one of the chief goals you want your client/customer to have. Your first ingredient is a:
Lg dose Great Customer Service. Not just CS but GREAT CS , with no BS. This is the foundation just as flour is to a cake. How does your customer service rate with your clients/customers? 

Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that's real power. Clint Eastwood
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    "Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, That's real power." 
Clint Eastwood

   Having Respect for your clients/customers as well as yourself is very important also. Their needs and yours should be both be met. Don't be afraid to ask questions, that knowledge will further your relationship before you get blindsided. It blends these next few things that are added to our batter.

 Pour in a lot of Honesty & Integrity. These will bring sustenance to the batter holding it together which creates and builds a strong Trust; something that cannot be left out. Without trust your batter will fail; they hold all of these ingredients together.

    "To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."  George MacDonald  

To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved. George MacDonald
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To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved. George MacDonald
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To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved. George MacDonald
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   Loyalty: Do you want their loyalty. The one that stays when others come around they will stick with you; because you already have their best interest at hand. A big cup full of this.


                      "Unity is strength...when there is teamwork and collaboration,
                        wonderful things can be achieved."              Mattie Stepanek
   

Commitment. Your commitment and theirs is a two way street. The commitment to one another to grow a fantastic personal and organizational relationship is what you're looking for. For this lots of sprinkle!


Communication. Once you're engaged in real time communicating, you'll pick up on things in conversation. Almost like finishing the others sentences. You'll pick on things when they're going good, or when they're heading south.

    "The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said."
     Peter Drucker

Delight: You want your clients/customers to be extremely delighted in the fact that your commitment to them is in fact genuine. Bring a smile to their face, pour it on!

     "The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows."
      Sydney J. Harris

What do you Experience while working with your clients/customers, what do they experience when working with you? The whole atmosphere should smell of the aroma of a great experience you and your client/customer share.

Now the icing...

A single mind/motive is having you share this cake with your clients/customers with smiles from ear to ear.Why?
Devotion is holding you all together. Caring for each others business growth and personal growth. When was the last time you celebrated a contractual anniversary with your client/customer. Try it, throw an office party with them, don't over do it (you may scare them), but show your yourself caring about your commitment to them.

This is brought to you from Arnold Group's Sphere-Logic Business Thinking.
Thanks for taking the time for this baking class.
Cheers, Jack

Middle Managers Prospectus

 As managers, we have come to the conclusion that we have to do it all, 'get er done', keep things moving, etc. When in fact (admit it or not) we can not do it all, even in delegation there are times when you are short-handed, low on allotted time on that days' schedule; and you realize it wont be done today. 

What do we do?

 You put your best on the job for each particular position at hand and hope for the best possible outcome... right? Wrong!! There are things we can do to make life a bit less complicated. This is new for some and just a small reminder for the seasoned manager.

Here are 6 steps to help you 'get er done' in some of your most pressing days:


1. Listen! Listen! Listen!
What do you hear the producers saying on the production floor? Does any have a thoughtful strategy? Could be they thought this thru before you; after all, they operate the day to day. Your associates are closest to almost all the situations on the production floor. Feedback is very, very important, listening even more-so.


                               Then you must act on that info!



2. Make each step count.
 Consider each step a stepping stone toward the goal. Well thought out moves are done before you make a move, not during, takes place. Are the right people for the job selected? Look ahead for obstacles that can and will arise. Plan an execution for each.

 Cross-training should be an essential part of any manufacturing culture. A/G specializes in group and one on one training methods to ensure production control.








3. It only works if you work it!
Many a good intentional plans have gone to dust because of poor execution or none at all. Try working the scenarios in your head, with a colleague, on paper, etc first; but do it or it won't get done!
Procrastination is a major production killer for any organization. Thinking things thru is one thing, but letting go, even for a time, is another.



4. Don't drift!
 This happens quite a bit. No one does this deliberately, but you may start out over here doing the right things, someone calls you for one thing or another,

all of a sudden you catch yourself an hour or so later not doing what your main intentions were. You must stick to the point and plan at hand.







5. Don't be afraid to stretch yourself or your team above and beyond!
Growth comes from stretching and building. Muscles don't grow unless you put pressure against them, same thing here applies. Your associates won't get mad or angry with you, they will see it as a measure of trust you put on and in them. (If they see it otherwise, they aren't team members)

Which leads us to:

6. Be immersed in the growth process!
 Leaders lead by example, not from the side-lines. Give it your all, they will follow suit. There's nothing worse than coming up with plans, strategies, and thought processes that never come to fruition.

Arnold Group has been serving businesses, manufacturing companies, career climbing men and women for some time now. "Building dreams, teams, and friends for life, not just clients!"

Success, Time, Chess?

     Your success, and how you look at it, is like playing chess. Think about that for a moment.

 You play against your opponent, using strategic moves to try and out-wit him/her. Each move made brings you hopefully closer to "Check-mate". This could go on for hours, maybe even days before one leaves the table a winner. One thing for sure, somebody is going to win!

  Success is the game, you sit on the one side, and TIME (is your opponent in this case) sits on the other. To lose this game is to lose in life, the things you wish to acquire; your dreams, aspirations, gone.

 At the same time, TIME doesn't have to be your opponent, if you do your due diligence. What in the world are we talking about?

                                                     YOUR SUCCESS!

 Successful people don't sit around and wait for things to come their way, because they won't come. You have to go and get success for yourself. Success could be monetary, fame, a great family, life style, or just a sense of well-being.

 No matter how you view success, time can be your friend or your foe. Procrastination is a great time annihilator, "Maybe I'll wait till tomorrow." Maybe it's false humility, "I'll never be able to do that!"


                              "It takes about 21 days to make a new habit routine, it
                             takes about 30 days to prohibit a bad habit from staying." 


  I remember in one particular shop I worked years ago I would walk by the vending machines and say to it "You're poison!" Yes, I was trying to watch my weight and sugar, yet also making a life style change to boot. It was a bit venomous at first (because I had to come from the office and back in through the same door thru-out the day; you guessed it, the machine greeted you at that door.) seeing all those goodies, but in time they looked like poison to me.

  At the same time I was creating a new habit. Eating more of the right foods. It all takes TIME. Time to build new thoughts and ideas, and time to break down the old ones. They should go hand in hand.

 When you take away what was there you must replace it asap, or you will revert back to the old way fast.
Example: Take away snacks, such as candy bars, replacement can be granola bars. Take away news paper, replacement can be books to help you grow your business or career. 

 In part, I would remind you that, "Life is a Checkerboard, and the player opposing you is TIME. If you hesitate before moving, or neglect to move promptly, your men will be wiped off the board by TIME. You are playing against a partner who will not tolerate INDECISION!"                                                                                           Napoleon Hill

"BUILDING DREAMS, TEAMS, AND FRIENDS FOR LIFE, NOT JUST CLIENTS!"  
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Planted or Buried?

Are we been buried or planted? Let's start with buried.

Buried goes in the ground as doesn't come back, but decays; and hopefully it'll stay there..if you do see it run! (A little humor) Buried isn't coming back, once it's over, it's 'OVER'.

Better run!

When you've planted a seed (buried) in the ground it germinates over time and grows. It starts out frail and delicate, but with some watering and plenty of sun that seed that was is growing into a hearty, thriving plant; be it a flower or a tree.

Take notice of the differences: Both went into the ground, but only one is coming out. Also, it's not coming out the same way it went in.

Jesus talked about the mustered seed, 'Though it be the smallest of seeds, it's branches grow big enough to house the birds for food and shelter.'

St. Paul talked about the fruit of the Spirit. Fruit grows on trees, which came from seeds. Psalm 1 says you will be like a tree planted by rivers of living water (growing and thriving through the Spirit of the Living God).

The Word of God is the seed in you (Jesus in me, the hope of glory). Your reading His word is the water to grow the seed in you. The Father gave His SON to shine in and through you so you can be the tree to shade those are in your life to show His love and grace.

 'You are dead (seed buried) in Christ, yet you live (grow and have your being)...you live unto Christ!'

 "Look at the lilies of the field, they neither sow nor toil, yet Solomon in ALL his glory didn't compare." He did not have the Spirit of Christ living in him, BUT you do!

What can and will kill the good seed is jealousy, anger, bitterness, UNFORGIVENESS. This is detrimental ground to be in. [Giving forgiveness releases your pain not theirs, they may not even know of your pain and anger.]

When Jesus came to the fig tree and saw it had no (good) fruit, He commanded it to wither. Heaven forbid He would have to say that to us today for not abiding in Him.

                  "To Be or Not To Be? That Is The Question"                                                               
                                                             Hamlet

 So, we ask ourselves again, are we planted (growing, thriving, baring fruit) or buried (dead in anger, bitterness, unforgiveness)? A little fertilizer of thought for today.

                                                  

Opportunity...Yours or ?

  Somewhere down the line someone at sometime took you for an "Ass", point blank. Most behind your back, and a few right in the face. They have tried to ruin your opportunity to rise above the ashes of a defeat. How? Reminders of how bad you did on that last project you led; something you did to get the job done, but they saw how you did it (even though it was OK to do), whether they knew or not. The list...on & on.


                         CAN WE DO DUMB SOMETIMES?

The Movie-Dumb & Dumber

  Sure we can do dumb things once in a while, but that doesn't mean we should be profiled as such. So, where do you go from there? Do you let their time of glory destroy what little dignity you feel is left? Your answer is a definite NO! This is where you pick up your pieces from your personal ash heap, and put them in the waste basket where they belong!

  It's hard to get away from being labeled at times, especially if you've let it go on for such a long period of time. Its time to move forward. Leave their thoughts behind, forgive and forget (tough one there). Time to start fresh and new. This is your opportunity to start with a fresh new outlook. YOURS, and what you can be.

  I wasn't there to see what you or whoever did what was done; that would make it easy to cure, but gossip is the term used for such behavior. It is wrong and it is devastating to others and yourself. Acquaint yourself with this phrase, "What goes around comes around." or " Do to others as you want done to you." In other words treat people the way you want to be treated, no matter what they do, be the better person.

 You owe it to yourself to make a clear stand and do what's needed to be done. Doing the right things, saying the right things is what is needed to bring you to the top of the hill. This is open ended and intentional for your thoughts to be pondered upon and collective for the soul purpose of self confidence and self esteem.

 

Getting Serious About CHANGE

The higher the Altitude the better your perspective.

  In my writings I like to take to the different view rather than follow the same-ole-same-ole. Be it for the challenge of your mind to think in different quantum's? I suppose so! Otherwise, wouldn't it be hum-drum to read the same story with a different title? SO, let's do the twist!

  Whether you can agree with me or not, don't you like a challenge of thought processes now and again? Just as Sphere-Logic Business Thinking drove some up the wall a few years back, but now everyone has jumped my
bandwagon of destroying the "BOX" mentality! Unfortunately, for some, the box has held them captive to this date and time. The box was fine back in the day; thinking outside it was the next move; BUT it's time to roll on!

  Getting rid of the box was/is great, but now they're outside the box wandering around scratching their heads, "Now what?". [There are a few companies out here getting on the "Sphere" thinking mentality. Check out a couple my earlier writings on the subject.]

  Everyone talks about change, they'll tell you change is good and they would like to; but no one does anything to change what it is to make that change in the first place.

  You first have to have a change in mind. Without a new mind-set, it's not going to happen. You need a vision (dream) along with motivation, inspiration, and even perspiration if need be.

  Before we go any farther, let's ask "WHY" do we want change? WHAT is it we want to change, others, things, circumstances?  Right off the bat, good luck trying to change others; inanimates will be more easy to change, and self will take on much more of a discipline; but that's exactly where we need to go. "SELF"

  Attitude is center on the sphere of things to change -- to change that mindset. Your attitude will reflect your persona for the day or your general personality for life.  Know the cliche', "misery loves company", well, you will find it if it doesn't knock you over first.

  I always say, "Good Attitude is High Altitude!" I won't explain that thought, I want you to think on it. The moment your feet touch the floor in the morning your first thoughts should be that of a positive nature.
Thankful for a new day, a new beginning, the shot at making this one better than the last.

                CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE - CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

  If you're waking up thinking 'here we go again', or 'in 9 more hours it'll all be over', you're starting your day defeated before you even start. Some of you might like
1. only your job,
2. only your coworkers, or
3. may not like your boss,
4. your direct reports or subordinates,
5. a few may not like anything but the paycheck at weeks end.


 Real Life sample: 

  Coaching a production manager just a few short months ago, she had an altitude problem. She couldn't see the whole picture, she only saw what she wanted. Her personal agenda, self preservation, and a slight ego got in the way. I was hired by the president by the company to help bring her along before the inevitable would take place. (So you see, I wasn't on her team so to speak, and her team was that of ONE.)
  It took a couple months to raise her altitude in order to correct attitude.  Direct reports had ideas, if she liked them she made them hers and if she didn't she would blast them out the door. As far as associates on the production floor, not even the time of day. She had a mission, to get to the top no matter who gets hurt. Unfortunately, she didn't realize she was heading for the door without knowing it.  That is, until the day of our first meeting.
  The President  thought she was a great production manager; the work got done with aggravated effort, but she needed much refining in the team-working -social arena. Some times it takes a little more work to correct the path we're on.

  Which of these above areas are you in ? I may be talking to Exec's as well. Life may have gotten out of control  a degree or two. You have got to change your attitude in order to change your life! In the case of our PM above, she's coming along.

   We don't have to agree all the time on everything, but we should all still get along and respect each others thoughts and perspectives.

  There are times you have to let go of something in order to hold onto something else. That takes change, an attitude adjustment, to let go of the old and grasp the new. Are you ready for change in this new year? You can start today, tell yourself one thing you want to change out loud. Come on, you can do it, you talk to everyone else, you mumble to self (negatively). It's time to speak aloud the changes you want/need to make, and follow thru one step at a time.

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"Building dreams, teams, and friends for life, not just clients!"
since 2002

Why Strive to Survive when you can Thrive

                                                           I've coached good leaders, and 'not-so-good'  leaders;
                                                    we're talking about teachable vs. unteachable persons here.

  The 'not -so-good' leader was basically thrown to the wolf (coach) versus personal  all sound  reason. They thought they were doing a well enough job without a coach. Basically I was their inheritance, the gift they didn't want from hierarchy.

   They would through the motions dealt by the coaching staff; and after it was all said and done, they received a lot of information and decided not to use what was given them. Some of those employees were replaced by these companies, and my staff resumed coaching. Some of these companies are still surviving... just SURVIVING! The question contemplated now...


          Why survive when you can thrive?

  Those who chose to be coached, not only grew in the company, but grew in themselves, to the point that some have moved upward in other positions and/or companies.

  Pro ball players hire coaches and personal trainers to help improve their game; politicians hire coaches to prepare speeches and help them learn to speak in front of large audiences and stand out from the crowd.

  It's been almost 5 months while coaching a major league retail store Mgr. He's made life so easy, eager to learn, not afraid to tweak his ego in any area we may enter into. I'm not his drill sergeant, but keep him pushing in the right direction.  He' has also made plans to bring on some staff.

 This isn't the case for everyone. Meaning, they may all want what this client has (the motivation), but it takes others a little longer to achieve.

                                                  How bad do you want it!            

  There's a bond, a mutual awareness and respect for our positions in this client/friend relationship. The reason? Everybody has a closet that needs to be opened, but we don't want to clear it out right away. Some of us hang on to things in our life along the way and don't want to let go. These things are called...  

                                                                    HABITS!

  Some are good and some are not. Non the less certain habits can cause our careers to sour. It takes some coaxing and coaching to get our habits aligned. Your coach (personal trainer) should help you rid of the bad habits and work on strengthening and growing good habits. Keeping your strengths strong and your strengthen your weaker areas.

   If you're not growing, moving forward in your client/coach relationship, you may need another coach; if you are a coach, you may need to drop the client if the relationship isn't moving. An important piece of information is feedback, without it you're building a chasm between you and the client. It's like your personal report card, keeping you on track.  

                                         Bridging the gap with good communication
                                                

                                                          between client and coach.      
                                                          
  Coaches aren't for everyone, they are for anyone who wants to grow in their field. Your coach and you, or you and your client should be a better than good fit. 


  Respect, Honesty, and Equality should be keep words to grow a great bond. Listening and understanding your (plural) plans as you move forward toward your goal is essential. This is how good habits will be formed, molded, and personified.

  Companies today, along with company presidents, CEO's, plant managers, etc. are stepping up their game. They are bringing career coaches (CC) onto their team to dream into existence a more vibrant cohesive team for tomorrow and leave the survival mentality behind. Isn't it time you grow your future?


Our motto: "BUILDING DREAMS, TEAMS, AND FRIENDS FOR LIFE, NOT JUST CLIENTS!" It's our vision and missions statement.

Composing A Self-Confidence No Matter.

   Whether you're a writer, auto mechanic, salesperson, or homemaker, self confidence is something we all need to make the most of our day. Confidence doesn't just happen at the moment or even over night; it will grow and brood in our being over time.

   Hopefully you had the type of up-bringing that had parents to nurture that self-confidence in you from the start. But for those of us who didn't have that luxury ( or maybe some of it due to two working parents or whatever the case), it's not too late.

   It can grow rapidly (many weeks/months) or leisurely (years) depending on how much you want it. So, if you are of the second, you may want to rethink your thoughts on the matter, or just stop right here. But! If you are of the first (rapid), let's keep moving forward as we journey toward growth within ourselves.

   There are a few thoughts that come to mind, over brooding myself over the past several weeks, as to what I wanted to convey in this blog. No matter what career path you have taken, you can be better at it and for it with these few steps.


1. You need to have a strong and unresolved DESIRE.

No one can give it to you, it has to be sprung forth from the inside-out, embedded in your heart and mind. Your passion for it grows with every breath, every thought, and waking moment. Others can see that twinkle in your eye when the subject arises, you start to glow, as if you're ready to burst.

Confidence will not come if you just take a nonchalant attitude. There's no love, no desire, no passion; therefore the dream of being a winner in life will never come to fruition.


2. As said above, it's the PASSION.  Remember...          Your first kiss!

How about your first love, the one your parents told you would break your heart when it ended. That love at first sight, the one nothing was able to steer you away from. That's the passion everyone sees consuming you; it is on your mind day and night.


 3. You need IMAGINATION.

Innovators, dreamers, artists have great imaginations. Now, not everyone is an artist per-se or an inventor, but everyone likes to dream. Picture yourself at the top of your game, not grudging thru. Try seeing yourself at the top of your class, not just passing.


 4. You must take ACTION to bring your confidence to life.

Taking a step or leap of faith to see yourself as you want to be seen, not the way others see you. David looked at Goliath and didn't see a giant, he saw another man in front of him because of his confidence. David saw a defeated foe.

     Desire comes from within, Passion is what's seen by others, Imagination is seeing      yourself the victor, not the victim; and Action is what you do to make it all happen. You need these ingredients in order to bring home the trophy. They are the building blocks on which one wins the prize.

The thoughts can go on and on about this subject. What counts is that you build your dreams by turning them into action on a daily basis. Confidence is something that is NOT given to you, you have to grow it, nurture it it has to become a part of you. Look in the mirror every morning and see the person you want to be. Say with confidence, "I'm a winner, I can do this!"

written by William (Bill) Gibbs,MC and Jack Arnold, CC @ Arnold Group

Over-coming the Fears of Chaos

          Some say, “Plan for the unexpected, and hope for the best”…

                                                        CHAOS!

  Yes, there are several types of chaos. Usually we only see chaos as a totally negative word, and that’s usually because that’s the way we see it. The meaning alone tells us what to expect: disorder, disarray, void of content...need I say more?

  There are three main types of chaos, expected chaos, orchestrated chaos, and that which is totally out of your hands.

  Expected chaos isn’t so bad (for the most part). You know its coming, you don’t know how, but you plan several ways to deal with it when it hits. Call it your escape plan, Plan-B, etc.

  Orchestrated chaos when its deliberate in its doing. When you have to undo something in order to correct the situation.

  An easy look at this is when you ask your teen to clean their room, and they tell you its clean enough.

  So you take initiative to mess it up more than it already is. You laugh, they get angry (of coarse). They start clearing out the room by reordering the mess and making it better than the original. This is also known as intentional chaos.

  Last, and the most dangerous is totally out of your hands. It’s not expected, orchestrated in any way. Like the lay-off instead of that promotion, the Griswold's’ cousin Eddie coming for the holidays unexpected (Christmas Vacation). Leaving  devastation out of the equation. You can see where I’m going.

  I wasn’t sure what to call this article at first, just Chaos, Coping with Chaos, or even Conquering Chaos. Chaos, well that was just not enough to say the least. Coping with Chaos is like saying coping with an elephant on your chest. And Conquering Chaos, well, that won’t happen in this life. So I decided on…

                Over-coming the Fears of Chaos

  Let’s face it, you can never in this life get rid of chaos, but you can deal with the fear it brings. How do we deal with it? Wow, glad you asked!

   First of all, realize it’s not just you! It happens to everyone that lives and

breaths on this planet. Some just happen to handle it better than others.

   Second, never try and do it alone. Always get opinions from every source available, I’m not saying go to one person and end there. Get a variety of options, trusted friends, family, Google a search, trusted colleagues on Linked-In and such.

   Third is to never rush an antidote. Unless it’s life and death, there’s no reason what-so-ever to give an un-thought out answer.

   Fourthly, without chaos there would be no creativity, innovation, inspiration, no will to succeed. Chaos will at times give that nudge, that push, sometimes a shove to drive us forward to our victory.

  If there is chaos (of some sort) in your life take the stand to change it. If you have no chaos at all check your pulse.